Xiaoqian Hello, read your letter I felt so heavy, in fact, a considerable proportion of real life, the failure of marriage and sexual disharmony are related, so that your question is more a universal I can understand. For your reference in the letter of the where to go, I want to give you the following points of Shenkaoyijian Ti Gong, Tong Shi Ye Shi gave them more like you, You Zhao, as the common confusion of Nv compatriots.
First, stick to one principle: do not divorce lightly.
I should say I am opposed to "husband and wife are of the same forest birds fly in trouble" argument. I think that the husband and wife, and running from the social side, it should be more than all thefriendship, evenaffection, this is social stability and individual happiness based. Happiness are not married to any instability, there is no development potential, that is the happiness of the people most of us still have to rely on marriage to establish and maintain. If you do things because of her husband in the ability of a point less, on the easy divorce is clearly immoral and under consideration, as a teacher because of poor student performance to give up his education as incredible.
